Sincerely,
Me, Bert
While my family and I were shopping for pillows at IKEA today I saw so many women breastfeeding their babies in public. Some were sitting on benches with breastfeeding covers. Some were wandering around the store; some were discreetly covered by a shawl and one woman I saw had a cami on and that was it. And one woman came into the family restroom I was in changing my daughter's cloth diaper to sit in a comfy leather chair and nourish her baby.
I walked about the store with a sense of pride. These women are my people. They know what it's like to not only give physically give their bodies to growing and sustaining another life for at the most 40 weeks. They understand what it's like to continue sharing their body with a child ensuring he grows healthy and strong. Maybe I'm hyper aware of public breastfeeding because August is National Breastfeeding Awareness month and there have been a few breastfeeding in public debates on the morning network shows? Whatever the case, on this particular Sunday afternoon, IKEA was surrounded with beautiful women breastfeeding their babes confidently. That right there, being able to feed your child publicly in confidence, is what this awareness month is about.On a lighter note, can you breastfeed your baby without your hands? What's your secret? I want to make this happen next time around!
Special thanks to the beautiful mothers who shared their breastfeeding pictures with me: Shannon, Erica, Karine, Kim & Meg.
Two children later and I still can’t nurse hands free. I have to be sitting or laying down.
I’m Large Chested Too, And I Do Ok Hands Free In My Boba. It Helps Now That My Son Is A Toddler And He Can Help Out And Hold And Support Things. Before, I Took A Prefold And WedgeD It Under My Boob For Support. You Do What You Gotta Do!
I am blessed with a larger than average chest, too. After some practice in low stress situations (like at home with a baby that wasn’t starving, I was eventually able to successfully breastfeed hands-free discreetly. It took a Beco Butterfly II, an udder cover,a great bra, and the baby dropped low enough so his mouth met up with the nipple, but we did it! We often have had people chat with us and not even realize he was nursing! He is now almost two, and we don’t do so much public nursing anymore, but it was so liberating to be able to feed my baby whenever wherever when he was younger.
Great post Bert! I am able to nurse in my Boba and my Lillebaby carriers. I could nurse in my ring sling, but not well. It is never comfortable for me, but it does work when it is necessary.
I can breastfeed handsfree if baby and and boob are on a pillow of some kind. Otherwise, I’ve got to prop that sucker up for her. I’m also envious of those moms who can just unsnap the bra and their baby can sit up and nurse. DD is 1 and she still has to lay down. That’s just the way I’m built.
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